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Wifey

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Posted: Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm

Post # 1

I popped over to ask: why is it NOT ok for a man (or a woman) to tell another person (opposite sex) they are HOT without crossing lines simply for the ego boost???

I figured the boating world would say...there's NOTHING WRONG with it...LOL...but I'm curious why it doesn't happen more often? Just a nice...oooo you're looking HOT today comment so someone can have a little ego boost that day???

I think we should be able to tell the opposite sex "wow, you're hot looking today" without it implying you want to go to the no-no zone...I know I would not mind a bit to hear that now and then from someone other then my pervy hubby who says it ALL THE TIME...LOL Ã‚Â

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

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Wifey

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Posted: Nov. 17 2009,10:23 pm

Post # 2

25 views and no replies...what's up with all the quiet peeps?

I've never known this group to be soooo quiet with their opinions...WOW!

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gigamurph

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Posted: Nov. 17 2009,11:45 pm

Post # 3

OK, I'll play. If I may say so, you're lookin' exceptionally H-O-T, HOT tonight Lindsey.

I've never had a problem tellin' someone that they looked, sounded, or whatever good. Of course; when you're an old, fat, baldin' fart, there's usually little threat felt, therefore no repercussions.

"My lifestyle determines my deathstyle!" -Metallica

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,12:37 am

Post # 4

Well..like gigamurph I am an old fart and not much of a threat to anyone !!! But in my mind I'd like to think I could be !!! Anyway Lindsey, I often see ladies, including my wife!!, that are looking really HOT.. but if I said anything other than to her she would knock my block off !! So please talk to her? I would love to give you lovely ladies an ego boost with no expectations of anything other than maybe a thank you...!

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,4:56 am

Post # 5

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,11:23 pm)

25 views and no replies...what's up with all the quiet peeps?

I've never known this group to be soooo quiet with their opinions...WOW!

Everybody went to bed early I guess!.. :sleep

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,5:52 am

Post # 6

Quote (EAGLE220 @ Nov. 18 2009,12:37 am)

This pretty much says it all, for a few of us guys anyway. :beat

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sean5474

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,7:07 am

Post # 7

I usually don't use the word hot unless I know them well. I do tell women they look nice or pretty. I think hot crosses the line with a stranger.

I tell my wifes good lookin' friends they are hot, even the not so good lookin' ones.

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DirtySquirty Male

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,7:12 am

Post # 8

I can't believe that nobody has used the "S" phrase. :eek

Sexual Harasment is so rampant these days, I'm leary of commenting on a woman's hair style.

Hormonal women anyway's.................... :rolleyes

"It seemed like a hell of an idea at the time".

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GlassMan

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,8:01 am

Post # 9

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,10:23 pm)

25 views and no replies...what's up with all the quiet peeps?

I've never known this group to be soooo quiet with their opinions...WOW!

gee...you posted waaay past my bedtime! :laugh

I tell female friends who Are hot that they look hot (when they do) all the time....of course, my wife is a tad hotter than all of 'em, so she doesn't mind

...just never say it to any of the women who work for me. :beat

Nope, not going down that road.

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WATERDOG

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,8:01 am

Post # 10

Wouldn't consider the word Hot for anybody I didn't know really well. I think I prefer more subdued terms like just very pretty or something similar. Besides, I've been slapped enough times a ready. :banghead

"Damn you sure know how to fock things up."-GFR

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DirtySquirty Male

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,10:04 am

Post # 11

Quote (WATERDOG @ Nov. 18 2009,8:01 am)

Ouch.

"It seemed like a hell of an idea at the time".

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lawbreaker2 Male

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,10:31 am

Post # 12

If I tell someone there hot I would be out of a job and the when the wife finds out. I will be homeless.

^^^^ Global Warming NOT HERE
The Planet has a fever!!!!!!!!!

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,11:19 am

Post # 13

Yeah, I agree...Hot should be used only if your very familiar with the person, otherwise it has overtones of sexual intent.

I've said to some women they are looking good or nice today.....at the gym I even said to one lady I wasn't making overture(I'm happily married) but just simply wanted to say she looked good.

Ain't life Grand? Treat it that way.
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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,12:29 pm

Post # 14

I don't say nothing to know around here anymore unless I seek to my lawyer first. Everybody mad about something here so I don't even say hello anymore.

^^^^ Global Warming NOT HERE
The Planet has a fever!!!!!!!!!

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AZKC

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Posted: Nov. 18 2009,4:20 pm

Post # 15

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,4:40 am

Post # 16

Quote (AZKC @ Nov. 18 2009,5:20 pm)

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

Especially at Hooters, huh!.. :laugh

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,4:42 am

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Quote (lawbreaker2 @ Nov. 18 2009,11:31 am)

If I tell someone there hot I would be out of a job and the when the wife finds out. I will be homeless.

That's about it, don't pay to be nice!.. :laugh

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DirtySquirty Male

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,8:45 am

Post # 18

Quote (GoFastRacer @ Nov. 19 2009,4:40 am)

Quote (AZKC @ Nov. 18 2009,5:20 pm)

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

Especially at Hooters, huh!.. :laugh

Ã‚Â

I'm gonna have to try that sometime............. :beer

"It seemed like a hell of an idea at the time".

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WATERDOG

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,10:04 am

Post # 19

Quote (DirtySquirty @ Nov. 19 2009,8:45 am)

Quote (GoFastRacer @ Nov. 19 2009,4:40 am)

Quote (AZKC @ Nov. 18 2009,5:20 pm)

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

Especially at Hooters, huh!.. :laugh

Ã‚Â

I'm gonna have to try that sometime............. :beer

Ã‚Â

Wasn't at a Hooter's but I tried it once. It did indeed come really quick and it was really cold too. She poured it in my lap. :banghead

I'm assuming that she had a good sense of humor too. As the mgr. that it complained to poured a second mug over my head, she was laughing her butt off. Best part about this night is that they didn't charge me for the two beers. :stupid

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DirtySquirty Male

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,10:53 am

Post # 20

Quote (WATERDOG @ Nov. 19 2009,10:04 am)

Quote (DirtySquirty @ Nov. 19 2009,8:45 am)

Quote (GoFastRacer @ Nov. 19 2009,4:40 am)

Quote (AZKC @ Nov. 18 2009,5:20 pm)

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

Especially at Hooters, huh!.. :laugh

Ã‚Â

I'm gonna have to try that sometime............. :beer

Ã‚Â

Wasn't at a Hooter's but I tried it once. It did indeed come really quick and it was really cold too. She poured it in my lap. :banghead

Ã‚Â I'm assuming that she had a good sense of humor too. As the mgr. that it complained to poured a second mug over my head, she was laughing her butt off. Best part about this night is that they didn't charge me for the two beers. :stupid

Lesson learned?? :stupid

"It seemed like a hell of an idea at the time".

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WATERDOG

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,11:37 am

Post # 21

Quote (DirtySquirty @ Nov. 19 2009,10:53 am)

Quote (WATERDOG @ Nov. 19 2009,10:04 am)

Quote (DirtySquirty @ Nov. 19 2009,8:45 am)

Quote (GoFastRacer @ Nov. 19 2009,4:40 am)

Quote (AZKC @ Nov. 18 2009,5:20 pm)

Quote (Wifey @ Nov. 17 2009,7:44 pm)

hmmm maybe I'm on to something, maybe the comment without the subconscience sexual request is the ego boost I'd like to hear more often...LOL

What's your take?

I use it all the time on waitresses. My beer seems to get there quicker and colder :beer

Especially at Hooters, huh!.. :laugh

Ã‚Â

I'm gonna have to try that sometime............. :beer

Ã‚Â

Wasn't at a Hooter's but I tried it once. It did indeed come really quick and it was really cold too. She poured it in my lap. :banghead

Lesson learned?? Ã‚Â :stupid

Like I said, it only happened once. :beat

But in my defense, she was really Hot. :love

"Damn you sure know how to fock things up."-GFR

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,11:45 am

Post # 22

If She Was That Hot, Then Maybe She Needed The Beer Poored On Her.....Although It's Still Alcohol Abuse..... :laugh

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WATERDOG

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,11:52 am

Post # 23

Quote (Carrera Elite @ Nov. 19 2009,11:45 am)

If She Was That Hot, Then Maybe She Needed The Beer Poored On Her.....Although It's Still Alcohol Abuse..... :laugh

Ã‚Â

At the price of beer at that place. :eek

No way that was gonna happen unless I could lick it off of her. :beat

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,12:13 pm

Post # 24

That Could Be Fun!! :laugh

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DirtySquirty Male

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Posted: Nov. 19 2009,1:30 pm

Post # 25

Quote (WATERDOG @ Nov. 19 2009,11:52 am)

Quote (Carrera Elite @ Nov. 19 2009,11:45 am)

If She Was That Hot, Then Maybe She Needed The Beer Poored On Her.....Although It's Still Alcohol Abuse..... :laugh

Ã‚Â

At the price of beer at that place. :eek

Ã‚Â No way that was gonna happen unless I could lick it off of her. :beat

And the problem was??.....

"It seemed like a hell of an idea at the time".

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