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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,3:38 pm Post # 1 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
My girlfriend moved in around sept...she has three cats and my main concern was them clawing my furniture. She said she planned on getting them declawed since they are house cats and she would keep them in her room when she wasnt home until then. I love animals...all animals...

I hate her cats...they have to go. I come home from a 24 hour shift...dead tired from running calls and I find cat barf on my carpet...I catch them on my kitchen table and counters..the open up the cabinets and pull my towels out..they pee'd on my furniture...they clawed my vintage bedspread and curtains..Problem is she is never home and they are out of control.

I let alot of this slide..but now my couch is shreaded on all four corners...thats when I said something to her and she went out and got their nails clipped and bought some stupid spray for your furniture to keep animals off of that doesnt even work..she also said she would keep them in her room when she isnt home..well she isnt keeping her word. She was a friend and so I let her move in without asking for a security depost..Im a dumbass.

They just need to go...Im sick of cleaning up cat barf and my couch is a mess..you would think they are my cats...so Im looking for a new roommate.. I live in a really nice town house in HB close to GoldenWest college...If you know of anyone who doesnt have cats let me know. I appreciate your help.

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,4:24 pm Post # 2 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Pets are only as bad as the people who own them. Kill her and find the cat's a nice home. She sounds worthless anyway. Call Barretta if you need help.

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,4:48 pm Post # 3 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I believe, and correct me if I'm wrong anybody,, it's illegal to de- claw cats in Calif.
Owning any more than one cat is ridiculous.

I have one working, mostly outdoor cat solely to rid my  neck of the neighborhood of Norweigan roof rats, Gophers and mice.
He pukes and poops outside in the wilderness.

My neighbors thank me.

Female roomates are sometimes not the way to go.
Guys are creepy - girls are flaky.
I would just rent to chicks that were cost conscience, heading into a divorce and trying to save some cash by renting a room.
If they constantly rent rooms from others,, then you have a flaky person.
Girls are easier to kick out, guys tend to pay the rent and not have problem pets and stay longer.

Kick her out, tell her it's not working out because walking through your front door isn't fun anymore.
You're not a dumbass Windy,, it's a pain in the ass to rent a room and ya just tried to accomodate and get it over with. Your maternal instinct took over. No good deed goes unpunished.
Ya can't be loyal when it comes to renting.
Ya gotta rent cause it's so expensive.When I lived in HB I used roomate finders, and they were teriffic.
Run an ad:

Room to rent. (not place to share) To person with act together
No smoking/drugs/pets/creepy boyfriends
Nice situation.

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Thanks TPC for the advice...I plan on placing an ad...just thought I word spread the word.

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,5:47 pm Post # 5 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
The best way to screw up a friendship is to rent a place/room to that person...   :fight  :beat  :fight

Best of luck to you Windy...

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,5:54 pm Post # 6 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
I think TPC hit it ! "Gently " persuade her to find other accomodations before it costs you both a friendship; if it hasn't already. Look on the bright side doll; it could have been some of this bunch barfin' on your floor and clawin' your couch. Now that would have been "industrial" gnarly! :)

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,6:48 pm Post # 7 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Just throw the bitch and her cats out the door !!!! :guns

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I hopy my brother doesn't see this...  :alien :D

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Your parents had more then one of you fockers :eek  :eek  :eek

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I guess they didn't know when to quit.... :D  :eek

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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,7:50 pm Post # 11 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Quote (RiverLiver @ Mar. 18 2005,7:48 pm)
Just throw the bitch and her cats out the door !!!! :guns

Couldn't have said it better myself!.. :good  :good  :beer  :laugh  :laugh  :laugh
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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,7:52 pm Post # 12 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Quote (Sleek-Jet @ Mar. 18 2005,6:47 pm)
The best way to screw up a friendship is to rent a place/room to that person...  

Man you got that right, been there done that!. :banghead  :laugh
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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 18 2005,10:08 pm Post # 13 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Quote (Lake Pirate @ Mar. 18 2005,4:24 pm)
Pets are only as bad as the people who own them. Kill her and find the cat's a nice home. She sounds worthless anyway. Call Barretta if you need help.

LMAO!

One cat in the house it tolerable.  Three is not. The litter box stinks.

Sorry about your furniture, Windy.  That stinks, too.
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wanna borrow my dog for a few minutes? :D

he loves cats :jumpie

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Quote (MissHBjet @ Mar. 18 2005,5:25 pm)
Thanks TPC for the advice...I plan on placing an ad...just thought I word spread the word.

I'll mention it to friends that have decent daughters going to school in your area.
Perhaps check to see if roomate finders is still operating, and sometimes local real estate offices have "a Letter" that circulates among offices and girls with their act together will read.
Worked for me.

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Quote (Lake Pirate @ Mar. 18 2005,4:24 pm)
Pets are only as bad as the people who own them. Kill her and find the cat's a nice home. She sounds worthless anyway. Call Barretta if you need help.

Tough Crowd :beat

Just need to be honest and get the cats out, if you think she is OK to live with :stupid

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Quote (MissHBjet @ Mar. 18 2005,5:25 pm)
Thanks TPC for the advice...I plan on placing an ad...just thought I word spread the word.

I'll mention it to friends that have decent daughters going to school in your area.
Perhaps check to see if roomate finders is still operating, and sometimes local real estate offices have "a Letter" that circulates among offices and girls with their act together will read.
Worked for me.

Hey thanks again TPC. Im gonna put an ad up at the college to.

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Just need to be honest and get the cats out, if you think she is OK to live with :stupid

When I see her Im going to tell her the cats need to go in the nicest possible way...Im sure she wont want to be roommates anymore after that. :(

She is always at her boyfriends house...they have an off and on again relationship and he hates her cats more than I do.

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Maybe the cats could make an "assisted escape"!! :laugh  :D

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Westiminster likes cats.... :cool
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Quote (JetBoatRich @ Mar. 19 2005,6:52 am)
Just need to be honest and get the cats out, if you think she is OK to live with :stupid

When I see her Im going to tell her the cats need to go in the nicest possible way...Im sure she wont want to be roommates anymore after that. :(

She is always at her boyfriends house...they have an off and on again relationship and he hates her cats more than I do.

Sorry to hear the problems Windy :( ...not much to add to the other advise...just wanted to express myself.
Oh, and like Glassman, I have a few dogs too ;)
Or if you want to be nice® about it find a carrier to put them in and leave in her room.

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