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I purchased a Cherry Condition, all original 1967 Chevy Bel Air for my son in February and drove it back to NorCal.  This was a birthday present for him for his 17th birthday.  He moved back to NorCal with his mom and Step-Dad in November.

SO, he has this VERY nice classic car parked across the street from his mom's house, and his step dad, not paying attention, backs his truck into the rear left quarter panel and bumper, causing alot of damage.

After talking to my son at length about the deal, seems like his "other Parents" (I use that term loosely) are NOT willing to get it fixed for him.  I felt so bad about it that I made arrangements to have the car picked up last weekend and taken to a friends body shop, and I will be paying for all of the repairs.

Is that BS or what?  Why do I have to pay for my ex's and her husbands ignorance and unwillingness to make it right?  I had to do it because my son feels like he has no way to get it fixed.

I don't know...It just pisses me off the way it went down :angry  :angry



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On the brighter side, my son KNOWS who helps him out and who don't.  He'll be back here on 4/14 for a week and is planning on MOVING back up here in June.  Thinking maybe he's tired of the BS down there...Just had to learn for himself



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Our 18 year old son moved to Phoenix right after turning 18 :rolleyes   Gonna set the world on fire ya know :rolleyes  :rolleyes

Looks like he wants to move back in June also....He's been the Shopping Cart getter at Wal-Mart since he's been down there and I'm thinking maybe he realizes he ain't going nowhere quick



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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 31 2006,6:17 am Post # 4 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
What an ass.  That really stinks.  Also that his mom wouldn't stand up for what is right for her child and pay to have it fixed.  I don't know what's worse, a man who doesn't take responsibility for his own actions or a mother who doesn't do right by her children.  Glad to see he has someone willing to take care of it for him.

BTW, you could send them a copy of the bill just for sh!ts and grins to remind them of what asses they are.
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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 31 2006,6:17 am Post # 5 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Quote (BigBoyToys @ Mar. 31 2006,7:13 am)
He's been the Shopping Cart getter at Wal-Mart since he's been down there and I'm thinking maybe he realizes he ain't going nowhere quick

That's the bottom of the toilet there!.. :D  :rotflmao  :rotflmao

But he could become a truck driver for them!.. :D

Edited by GoFastRacer on Mar. 31 2006,6:18 am
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Quote (My Man's Sportin' Wood @ Mar. 31 2006,6:17 am)
BTW, you could send them a copy of the bill just for sh!ts and grins to remind them of what asses they are.

I like it :good  :good

Think I'll do just that.  

I actually get along with my ex now, but this crap pissed me off.  Guess it's just her true colors showing through.  My son says she ain't got no $$ cause she spends it all on Lottery Tickets (She makes $22hr and nothing to show for it :rolleyes  :rolleyes )



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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 31 2006,6:21 am Post # 7 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Quote (GoFastRacer @ Mar. 31 2006,6:17 am)
Quote (BigBoyToys @ Mar. 31 2006,7:13 am)
He's been the Shopping Cart getter at Wal-Mart since he's been down there and I'm thinking maybe he realizes he ain't going nowhere quick

That's the bottom of the toilet there!.. :D  :rotflmao  :rotflmao

But he could become a truck driver for them!.. :D

:rotflmao  :rotflmao



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Have him call the cops and report an accident (hit and run). What an A$$hole  :beat
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Quote (BigBoyToys @ Mar. 31 2006,7:13 am)
He's been the Shopping Cart getter at Wal-Mart since he's been down there and I'm thinking maybe he realizes he ain't going nowhere quick

That's the bottom of the toilet there!.. :D  :rotflmao  :rotflmao

But he could become a truck driver for them!.. :D

:rotflmao  :rotflmao

I thought about it before, but I don't want to work weekends and holidays for 15 years before I could get a run like BB has!.. :rolleyes  :laugh

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Quote (Tuchop @ Mar. 31 2006,6:22 am)
Have him call the cops and report an accident (hit and run). What an A$$hole  :beat

Not an option.  Since he only has a permit right now (Gets his license in May) the car is just sitting and no Insurance on it.  His mom also doesn't own the home (Rents it) so no homeowners insurance to cover it either.

Some F'ing people I just don't know... :angry  :angry



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Have him call the cops and report an accident (hit and run). What an A$$hole  :beat

Not an option.  Since he only has a permit right now (Gets his license in May) the car is just sitting and no Insurance on it.  His mom also doesn't own the home (Rents it) so no homeowners insurance to cover it either.

Some F'ing people I just don't know... :angry  :angry

Some people just don't fkn care!.. :beat  :beat
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Post Icon Posted: Mar. 31 2006,6:31 am Post # 12 see this member send this member a private message  quote this post in reply
Well, there's gonna be hell to pay the next time I go down there  :guns  :guns  :guns  :guns  :guns
I'm done being nice with the kids' mom and step-dad......

Edited by BigBoyToys on Mar. 31 2006,6:31 am



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That's what you get for being nice!.. :beat  :beat
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and his step dad, not paying attention, backs his truck into the rear left quarter panel and bumper, causing alot of damage.

Does the step dad have insurance?? Why doesn't he turn it into them??  :stupid

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and his step dad, not paying attention, backs his truck into the rear left quarter panel and bumper, causing alot of damage.

Does the step dad have insurance?? Why doesn't he turn it into them??  :stupid

He's a dick!.. :beat
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and his step dad, not paying attention, backs his truck into the rear left quarter panel and bumper, causing alot of damage.

Does the step dad have insurance?? Why doesn't he turn it into them??  :stupid

He's a dick!.. :beat

:laugh Sounds like it!! :laugh

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Yes, he's a dick.  Sone tells me that his step dad is up all night quite often "messing arond" in the garage, then goes to work all day.  Sounds like a tweaker to me :rolleyes  :angry



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And he doesn't have insurance on his own vehicle he says...



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More like "Super Dick!.. :beat  :laugh  :laugh
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Maybe his truck needs to involved in an "accident"??  :D

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A little more info.  My son invested all of his savings ($1800.00) into this deal, and I paid all the rest plus all the costs of the trip.  The car WAS appraised at $16k and only has 36 k original miles on it.
This was a recent deal....I delivered the car in February (The weekend of the LA Boat Show) and my son's birthday was last week 3/23.  The car was wrecked 2 weeks after he had it and other than a quick test drive, the car has been parked since I delivered it to my son.  Talk about adding insult to injury........

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I also have promised my son that if he ever wants to sell it, I will buy it back for everything that he has into it (It really is a nice car :good  and I wanted to keep it every since the drive to NorCal :D  :D )

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Just make sure that it's repaired right.....It sounds like it's a nice car.....

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I'd make ol' step dads life interesting...... :D

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Good Luck BBT, sounds like a shitty situation to me but I also think that you are handling it the "right" way, too bad the step dad is such a prick. Post up a picture of the car, I'm sure we would all love to check it out...

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