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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,11:47 am

Post # 1

Ok, whats a guy to do....? ladies... chime in, help a man out.

average guy... with SMOKIN HOT WIFE... :love

when i show "affection" to the wife, in front of our "old" group of friends... the other wifes get all pissy pants. :stupid

we dont "cuss each other out"... (yeah, i've gotten worked up when "$h!ts happening" and heaven forbid someone do something to help without being "told" (asked with attitude to assist in ANY WAY) (...different issues..) but we are that "lovey-lovey" kissy... love you couple, that is laid back... the wifes been in the boob-meeter, and a bead catcher... but not "too" extreem... (them's special'.. .002$ beads..??? whats in it for me?)
we cater to each other...(drinks/sunblock/smokes.. anything)
and i think its cause "their hubbys" DONT and would rather be "apart" than together. :stupid

try and get us to go off (boys time/girls time) and the girls being girls... (wife tells me)
try to get her to pick up guys with them...
what kind of friends huh...?
it should be more about "good times" :beer

are the other girls/guys just jealous?
i'm just lucky to have the perfect woman...
(now if i could find her a girlfriend....) :hitit

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,12:00 pm

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maybe those other wives are jealous of how your wife looks or maybe they wish their hubbies were as affectionate. or maybe they just get turned off by public display of affection. personally I find it annoying. stop getting us all worked up with all the kissing and rubbing . fuck already .

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,12:16 pm

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its not like that.... its subtle stuff.... just letting her know that i am there, and i am with her...
as for the other women, looks wise... are about the same, well... from the neck down anyway... :good

(on a good day)
but nothing i'd want...
but get this.... MY wife seems to think one of these girls could take me from her..? :stupid

maybe its the "girl talk" that i dont hear that makes her think like that...?
i've been "propositioned" and all... she has too... by our
"friends"... but didnt respond, so... i think its just that urge for women, if their not happy, others around shouldnt be either...!!!! (misery loves company)

why cant we have "smokin hot friends" that dont want to
screw up what WE have....??? :grouphug

we not shy.. :beer

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,12:23 pm

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Quote (MIKE DAMMIT @ Oct. 07 2006,12:00 pm)

Damn Mike... I mean Mike Dammit

You sure don't beat around the bush.... well maybe you do. What I meant to say is "you sure tell like it is".

Too funny, brother. :laugh

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,12:32 pm

Post # 5

Your question is all over the place!

Get to the point so that we can answer your question.

You made a remark about them being "OLD FRIENDS", if they are....then who gives a sh*t about them.

Then you say you have the perfect woman, and then make a remark about getting a "GIRLFRIEND"......either you really want advice, or you are just venting!

Which is it???

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,1:21 pm

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He wants to get his wife a girlfriend, Savy :pirate

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Posted: Oct. 07 2006,1:26 pm

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that should be his wifes choice

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,5:08 am

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i just want to know why the other wives would want to cause problems for a couple that is happy "with each other"
:fight

but be sweet as can be to your face....

they are "old friends", cause we distanced ourselves from them, to see that it was THEM that start any problems.
without them around, everything is cool...

we are moving and leaving that crowd to ruin each others relationships.... i think they are mad cause i wouldnt bang their wives.... (they swap out...)
:eek

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,7:28 am

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time for a NEW group of friends :stupid

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,7:38 am

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I agree a 100% :eek

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,9:04 am

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New friends.

We found out some of our friends were into swapping also. We slowly started avoiding their parties, found new friends to camp with and I went back to college and got too busy for them anyway.

As we get older, our friends change and so do our lifestyles. We don't have much in common with most of our old friends anymore. Jeff has a successful business (most old friends are 9-5ers and would never think of working on a weekend or until 9 at night :eek

) and most of my old friends (the wives) only want to talk about kids and grocery shopping. Plus, we had kids early and they are just now having kids. :cry

Bottom line is people change. Find new friends. Going to a boating forum event where you know absolutley NO ONE is a good place to start :laugh

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,9:06 am

Post # 12

Quote (RiverLiver @ Oct. 08 2006,7:28 am)

time for a NEW group of friends :stupid

Ya think?

Ya, there are those kinda people in life...that like to ruin everything and do not want to see people happy!

Time to move on!

Put your relationship first!

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,9:48 am

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Quote (My Man's Sportin' Wood @ Oct. 08 2006,9:04 am)

We found out some of our friends were into swapping also. Â We slowly started avoiding their parties.

So thats why you quit going to our parties :laugh

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,12:00 pm

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its cool, we like to party... we can hang out, run neked down the beach (not around kids... but if thats whats going on.. then... so be it)
but just cause we can be "neked"... thats not an invite for the guys to want to bang my wife... :beat

and the "wives".... well, i can see where they been missing out :eek

but hey.... thats the men "they" chose to be with.

we do have some close friends that are into "each other" and are totally cool without any issues.
we hang out.... if they get busy, well... :drama

who knows.... i think the wife likes to brag...

show off what we got between us.... :love

she does like to play with the girls... but they better not try and play with me... (she's protective of her toys..)
but hey, whatever turns her on... long as i get mine... :beer

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,12:09 pm

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i guess i do need to find her some new girl friends...
:drama

i think she's a chick magnet...

i do wonder some times, that she "might" involve me with her girlfriends... :confused

but then again.... i think its just more to tease the crap out of me. :beer

hey, whatever... long as she's happy.

so, thats not "cheating" is it...? if i'm watching...?
and for the guy... is that really fair? for her to get that attention/contact from someone else, but none for me...

she'l tell me that i can have any MAN i want... :puke

women... what strange creatures... ( but they so SEXY)

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,12:31 pm

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ok... it must be "venting"... or trying to learn how to be the best i can be at keepin the wife happy...?
call it what you want, i just keep trying, and if she's

then i'm

i think she's just a "free spirit" thats too sexy for her own good...
we are going to be in California for a couple years, with no kids... ( the young one is with his "sperm doaner") to see what thats like for a while...

so... i may just be scared that she'll get out there and get buck wild on me... (she a Kentucky girl) :fouet

we're doing good, making plans to be totally retired in a few years... so, we got our "stuff together" financially, but i wonder what goes on in her head some times...

but "good friends" have to be carefully sellected...
for everyones benefit. ( i know, bounce around bounce around)

anyway :peace

i'm out for a while, gotta feed and squeeze my honey... :love

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,1:04 pm

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Quote (Dons_Donzi @ Oct. 08 2006,5:08 am)

i just want to know why the other wives would want to cause problems for a couple that is happy "with each other"
:fight

but be sweet as can be to your face....

they are "old friends", cause we distanced ourselves from them, to see that it was THEM that start any problems.
without them around, everything is cool...

we are moving and leaving that crowd to ruin each others relationships.... Â i think they are mad cause i wouldnt bang their wives.... (they swap out...)
:eek

you didn't mention the swapin in your first post. that explains alot of the hateration from you "old friends". so far I've gathered that your wife is not a shy girl and that you guys are openly affectionate . the "old friends" see you guys being open minded to accpect what they do, since you didn't avoid them when you found out. by not participating with them they feel rejected. thats the problem with people in the "lifestyle". some of them just want to have fun with anybody and everybody and they don't undertsand people who don't.
BTW where are some pics of your better half?

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,1:45 pm

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Quote (Dons_Donzi @ Oct. 08 2006,12:09 pm)

i do wonder some times, that she "might" involve me with her girlfriends... :confused

but then again.... i think its just more to tease the crap out of me. :beer

I was telling my wife that it is pretty much every guys fantasy to have two women at one time...... she is a little "old fashion" and just wouldn't believe me.

One day, out of the blue, she asked which of our female friends I would like to have join us...... :confused

Being fairly sure it was a trick question..... I ran away like a dog with his tail between his legs. :beat

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,2:20 pm

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Quote (JetSet @ Oct. 08 2006,1:45 pm)

Quote (Dons_Donzi @ Oct. 08 2006,12:09 pm)

i do wonder some times, that she "might" involve me with her girlfriends... Â :confused

but then again.... i think its just more to tease the crap out of me. Â :beer

Being fairly sure it was a trick question..... I ran away like a dog with his tail between his legs. Â :beat

2 is not enough. it's better to have 3 or 4 that way when your done you can go watch TV and no one will miss you!

you played that trick question exactly right brother :good

. If she doesn't know by now don't tell her. besides everybody knows you don't do that with friends. look at all the freaks on Jerry Springer.

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,4:36 pm

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This thread should be on HB.com with the online cheating thread.. :stupid

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,7:30 pm

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That would get some heavy discussion going I would think!..

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,8:09 pm

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Quote (RiverLiver @ Oct. 08 2006,4:36 pm)

This thread should be on HB.com with the online cheating thread.. :stupid

That's kinda what I was thinkin' too.....

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,8:37 pm

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Quote (Carrera Elite @ Oct. 08 2006,8:09 pm)

Quote (RiverLiver @ Oct. 08 2006,4:36 pm)

This thread should be on HB.com with the online cheating thread.. :stupid

That's kinda what I was thinkin' too.....

Ya know, this is where the really cool peeps are!

Not the 5150 cases, or child predators.

Most of us really dig our significant others, trust and respect them, as well as want be.... or have been with them for a long period of time.

With all due respect..........something is off with this post thread.

Do my fellow HD peeps agree?

We have great times, trust and respect each other and everyone's better halves!

Where are all my HD pals???? Please jump in. :beat

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Posted: Oct. 08 2006,9:29 pm

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Quote (Silver @ Oct. 08 2006,8:37 pm)

Quote (Carrera Elite @ Oct. 08 2006,8:09 pm)

Quote (RiverLiver @ Oct. 08 2006,4:36 pm)

This thread should be on HB.com with the online cheating thread.. :stupid

That's kinda what I was thinkin' too.....

With all due respect..........something is off with this post thread. Â

what do you mean? :stupid

off?

do you think I'm off?

yes, I'm offensive at times but I hope I'm not thought of as off. at least not yet anyway

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Posted: Oct. 09 2006,5:04 am

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we trust and respect each other...
i just hate hearing "i cant help what other people do.."
when other guys come up and get all "friendly" with her, or smack her :ass

...?

some times its no big deal... but some people think they are just the suave one... and its cool to play with ALL the girls.

and if you turn it all around... and any woman come up and smack MY ass... or get all friendly...
:fight

the cat claws come out.... and "thats MY man"...
bla bla bla...

is it the :beer

crap, or "insecurity"...?
we have only been together for about 5 years.
she's "learning" more about herself... "exploring"
and she's had a 12 year abusive relationship before....
i've been cheated on and used in my past...
so i dont take any crap either, we are both hard headed.
( if that helps)

so, i get to where i dont say much of anything anymore...
dont quite have the tail between my legs, but roll with the flow... try and keep her "reasured" that i'm all about her,
and i'm not runnin off to some little hoochie.

i'm with her, want to see her happy... and not feel like a piece of meat.
like i said before, we are just going to be really selective on who we hang around with...
i dont go grabbin my buddies wifes ass or tits... even if they are in my face... if they are there, she put them there...
:bebe

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